Tuesday, January 3, 2012

Do what is right. Not what is Comfortable

It is good to give, it is good to turn the other cheek when someone wrongs you, and it is polite to not call out people when they make mistakes. But you can not always do this. If you are working on a team and someone is messing up you can not be so worried about being polite that you let things continue to go wrong. Your "politeness" may be the very thing that gets YOU fired.



If a friend is in an abusive relationship with drugs or a man you have to say something. Some people will not say anything because they think they will loose a friend, because they are going to have to tell the person that is abusing, words they do not want to hear. You have to realize that by not saying something, you are truly risking never seeing them again. They may wind up dead if you do not risk them getting mad at you!


A majority of the time, the right thing is not the easy thing, but it is always the better thing! Be better!

Just some food for thought, because I love to eat!

Lexsi Lewis ... Muah !!! xxx

Monday, January 2, 2012

New Years Resolutions!


First and foremost...HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!! It's 2012!!!! 


The funniest things about this time of year are probably the unrealistic diet plans!! People usually tell themselves around this time of year that they can do all these things that they have never done before. If you eat chocolate everyday it is ssooooo unrealistic that you are about to go 3 months with out one bite! If you never work out you probably wont start working out 6 days a week. If you gossip all day and are still around the same people, you'll be gossiping in two days, and if you have a shopping problem, it is not going to stop just because you are not going to go to the mall for one week!



The problem with most people's new years resolutions is that they are unrealistic!!! Last year I tried to give up drinking and did for about four months. And than I drank again, but I did realize drinking became less appealing to me, so I now drink a couple times in a month. I also wanted to get in the habit of praying more and I started with praying right before I went to bed. I now pray when I wake, every time I eat, when I leave my house, before I do any audition, when I see news of sickness, before I go to bed, basically as much as possible. These two situations made me realize the solution to all these failed new years resolutions.

You should not expect or put all this pressure on the first month of the year. Yes, it is a great time to start these new better habits, but realize you do not have to accomplish everything you want at once. You are making a New YEAR resolution. You make these so on new year's eve you can reflect and see that after a year's time you have accomplished your goals. Start today but give yourself a break, it is hard breaking old nasty habits. And if you have been doing something for 10, 20, 30+ years the odds are you can not quit that habit in 3 weeks!

Just some food for thought, because I love to eat!

Lexsi Lewis ... Muah !!! xxx