Your Definition of LOVE!

I know tooooooooo many people in relationships where their partner does not support their dreams, makes them cry, and/or abuses them mentally or physically. They all have the same reason for staying... "Love"
I am here to let you know that is not love! It is actually nothing more than a bad habit!

Many people think it is just easier to stay in these relationships, because they are so use to this person. Their partner knows them already, and they do not want to have to go through the whole process of getting to know someone new. Another thing I hear people in these situation say is they know things can be better. " When we started dating he was so amazing, he use to do this, he use to do that" Excuses! Excuses! You're holding on to something that NO LONGER EXISTS.

1) It is easier to stay, but it is not better too! If you keep holding on to something that you know is bringing you down, that does not make you happy, than you are keeping your self low. You are allowing negativity to takeover, and not giving happiness a space to enter your life.

2) STOP LIVING IN THE PAST!!! Everyday you grow and change, and so does every one else. Sadly, everyone does not always change for the best. Accept it!

3) Who cares if they cry!!! They have made you cry! Now that you're ready to leave they cry and you can not go? They did not care when you cried.. Why should you care when they do? People that know that they do not deserve you may come to you crying and saying everyone always gives up on them and you are the only one they can depend on. Ike said the exact same thing to Tina Turner. If you really want to help them, you should let them learn that the only person that they should be able to depend on is themselves, and than leave.

Love is suppose to be the happiest feeling you can feel towards someone. You get happy, just because they are happy. You cringe at the thought of them getting hurt. You get excited when they start to grow. You do not want to fight and argue, because you do not want to waste one second in misery. If you're not happy, it's not love, it's a bad habit.

The new years coming, and it is time to start thinking of your resolutions. You made need to drop a habit from your heart!

Just some food for thought, because I love to eat!

Lexsi Lewis ... Muah !!! xxx